It is surprising how this actress has toned down significantly on the way she was attacking her soon-to-be ex-husband. Everyone seems to know her motives. This explained why when her ex made an appearance at the Golden Globes, everyone clapped and cheered for him. And he was only there presenting not receiving an award. That must have been like a slap to the face, but we doubt she cares. It’s nice though, that now she’s letting things be more positive. A good thing that her ex talked her into it. After all, kids are the most important when a divorce is ongoing. If not treated properly, they can end up being messed up, just like she almost did.
Hollywood Blind Item
The Villain Plan
This actress has done such a turnaround in the past few weeks that it’s giving us (Snidely) whiplash!
Her most recent ex is also a film star, and she was treating him very badly. Those around her were counselling her that divorce is a war and that she needed to destroy him to get what she wanted. They encouraged her to isolate him and villainize him to the public and to her kids. She did exactly that for many months.
Now, all of a sudden, she is all about kindness and compassion and embracing him back into the family fold. What the heck happened?
The first thing most people think is that she didn’t like the bad publicity that was coming her way. Her plan to make him look like the evil one backfired on her, and she needed to cease her attack on him to save her own reputation.
That was one factor… but not the only factor!
The second factor was a series of communications she had with a different ex-husband. He reminded her of his own strained relationships with his children from various relationships. He told her that what she was doing was wrong.
He told her that if she really cared about the kids she would do everything she could to make sure that they remained close to their father so they didn’t end up like [one of his estranged kids].
She took his advice.
Thus, the third factor was her recent invitation for the actor to spend quality time with them in a foreign location. Not with her, but with the kids going back and forth between them. The arrangement worked out so well – and the kids were so happy – that they will be doing something similar again in the future.
The villain plan is out. The Daddy plan is in. Everybody is much happier now. For the sake of the kids, we hope they can maintain this civility.